Life is not the same...

Do not worry, I am not the type to sit down and cry.... Although I have many health problems, it is allowing to be more healthy in my lifestyle. You cannot imagine how many ways I can cook bitter gourd nowadays and also the pleasures of brown rice. But also to be able to run 2km. I started running a few days ago and even though legs are telling me to give them a break, I do feel much better and sleep much better.





Anyways, all this is beside the point. The point is that we have to live as long as we can live and this is so that we can be with those whom we love. It is really silly in my opinion to try to make sure that in death, those who live on are well taken care of. Insurance and other measures are at most something to fall back on, but if the living are unable to look after themselves, then they are most probably better off dead.





This is how I plan to teach my kid. She has to learn to take care of herself and be able to live a normal life by herself. If it means she has to understand hardship, then so be it as life will not be as easy as when being a child and being protected and pampered by a parent or parents.





They are back in Japan now and they should come back in end September. However, I will be very busy and tavelling around, so I do hope that I will at least be here to make sure they land safely.