Its just like the newspaper said

It is sad, but our elderly will have to die in foreign lands. This is because elderly care in Sg is becoming too expensive and also in some ways unmanageable. Take my energizer rabbit for example, she keeps wanting to see doctors and to have something wrong with her so that people can say "poor thing" to her and perhaps be a bit nicer to her. In the end, it willsad cost us a bomb.... My question is if something is wrong with her, then how? She has already had cancer and is having diabetes and high blood pressure. Her natural lifespan may be for a few years to tens of years. She already has Alzheimer's and her mental aspect is also going off. So do we pay to maintain a coconut husk? If not will the gahmen make noise or the coconut make noise?

It is really really sad. And what is sadder is that I have 2 people on the other side who are weak, egotistical and do not really have a clue what they are doing in their lives. On Sat, wat happened was that my monster was playing near a table, near my sister. My eyes were on her and I guess my sister's was too. My monster was bending down and suddenly my energizer rushed to push my monster away because she thought that monster wud hit her head. Energizer missteppes, fell and hit the front part of her head on the table and started a whole drama that lasted into the night. Claiming that she felt faint, wanting to die and so on. In the end, I did a preliminary check and she was ok. She went upstairs to her room and even said she was hungry. No one even bothered about my poor monster who was tangled up in a heap of legs and was really damn confused. My sister was panicked, wanting to send energizer to the hospital and so on. Come on, people hit their heads all the time. If you lost consciousness or started to vomit or if your pupils are not dilating properly, I would be worried, but if after the initial state of confusion, you seem ok, there is no need.

After I got home, I found that monster had a big scratch on her back and lucky she did not hit any table leg or chair and having 50kg's rushing on her may have broken bones and so on. If people bend down and were about to bang their heads, all you need to do is to advise them or alert them. Not rush at them like football tacklers and then fall into a heap with them. Well the other side's drama continued well into the night like I mentioned, with energizer now saying that she had a bad dream and so wanted to be brought to a hospital. My sister, being an idiot, did not bring her to a normal clinic, but decided to bring her to Mt E, A&E. The dr said that she was fine. (I am still fuming because this is the umpteenth time my medical decision has been countermanded by an idiot who does not know anything about medicine). Then the dr was a bit worried about energizer's blood pressure and wanted her to remain under observation. So she started to fume and ho and hum and made her blood pressure even higher. For goodness sake... she does not even take her medications religiously!!! In the end my silly tried all means to find some medical professional to see if there is anything wrong with her (energizer). Erm, the dr already said nothing was wrong. It is just that someone with dementia saw the wrong situation and reacted and had a fall... Then being guilty, and wanting attention, of course, it ended up in this way.... So now my friends.... I ask you.... WTHF..... and when they went home, old crazy had left her bag at the hospital.... Why do people not just understand the situation and just live with it?

I am now afraid of my mom because she has shown that she is incapable of lookign after my child and may even cause hurt rather than harm. And as her dementia continues, she will be more of a problem not only to all, but also herself. So I am really really stuck. She cannot control money, seems to be spending heaps for no rhyme of reason and yet is unable to see any reason. Is the gahmen going to help us? I doubt so.