Shit happens, though it is not supposed to..

I will not stand here on a moral high horse and talk about how the recent mix up in samples caused the wrong child to be placed with the wrong parents. I will also not stand here and debate the rights or wrongs of IVF or AR. These are forums to be left for others.

But one thing is that instead of pointing fingers are finding out who to lynch, I personally feel that the most important thing when something goes wrong is to sit down and think about how and where we go from here. It is like this weekend, my baby had the worst weekend and by default so did we. She fell from almost everything she sat on, came out with a few bruises and even a broken lip... So do I point the finger at my wife and say that she ahs not been doing here job? I will also have a part to blame in this episode too... right?

So as mentioned before, how do we go forward? And like I also said, "Shit happens". It breaks my heart to see my child cry or hurt, but in a way, we have to allow them to get hurt to learn. Just like my kid loves to pull put drawers and slam them back... Well, she slammed and clamped her fingers a few times... If she don learn that it hurts, then she will bloody well slam till she learns that it is 1) Stupid to slam things... 2) It is also painful if you slam your own fingers... Call me a bad dad maybe? But then it is the only thing to do, for even if you say "NO!!!" till you are blue, if she does not understand, then she will never understand.

Anyways, so back to pointing fingers. We should have a systemetic and cool approach of how problems should be handled and how they can be faced.