Marriage in Spirit

Hey.... I did not say marry a spirit ok?? I mean what happens if you only marry someone in mind or in spirit? Why I say that is because of a very beautiful love story that I know.... (Oh yes... it is not me and I am never so lucky!)

I know of this guy who is in another country, he was spoken for and was supposed to marry gal A, but he fell in love with gal B also. Being a great guy that he is, he supported and loved both with all his heart. I feel that it depends on the intention of the love and the spirit of the love. So anyway, he saw Gal B through college, and even helped her to open a business. Even when he got married and had a child, he still loved Gal B. But he never loved Gal A any less. He would make sure that both were happy and were well taken care of.

So can you fault him? Was he womanising or leading someone on or hurting anyone? Is Gal B making use of him? I really cannot say anything, but then as long as everyone is happy, why rock the boat? Sometimes people get together and for different reasons. But as long as the reasons are ok and do not hurt anyone, I believe that it is ok... But guys or gals, do not go out looking for another boyfren or girlfren jus like dat ok?

But I feel like it is the spirit in which a man is allowed to have a few wives if he is able to love and care for the wives on an equal manner... Because sometimes, the other gal may need a helping hand to get somewhere. And if left to her own devices, she may never make it. Perhaps I am wrong, but if done in the right spirit.. it shud be ok... but my dear frens, I am not talking about anything wrong here ok... So please do not quote me hor.