Happenings and comings and goings

First of all, any frens or relatives who changed their numbers within the last 2 years, 2007 and 2008, please send me an sms with your number because I lost all my previous data when I changed phones... so pls pls pls... sms me hor.

Anyway, I have been flying around like a dog without a home and am really quite tired out now. Like I said "I am getting too old for this shit". But other than that, my baby is driving my wife bonkers... I think it is because there is no one else to help care for the baby and of course being a new mother, she is also extra careful about a lot of things. I got the easy and lucky end of the stick I guess.But do not worry, I will do my best as a daddy when we are together again.

I only hope that my next child, will be a boy because like I mentioned before, having the youngest child being a girl will mean that daddy here will have to spoil her and that is really not what I want to do. But I have noticed that no matter what happens,most of the guy frens I know really do spoil their smallest kids especially if they are girls... Sori hor... I am not knocking girls down hor.

Anyway, so back to baby. Seems like she can now flip over multiple times and this is driving my wife crazy because she has to ensure that there is proper padding for little dynamo to do so... Also while she is dreaming (dynamo that is) she will whimper or cry out and then wifey will wake up and wonder wat is happening I guess that this is all part of growing up.

I am just wondering how some people cope with it. Because we have a friend who divorced her husband quite soon after having her daughter. The reason being that he had mother complex... But I do not think it is sexual, only thing is that he really listened to everything his mom said and so they had to divorce...

I know of another fren who is now in the midst of such a situation, but luckily they have not gotten married. It is sad lah... I mean that sometimes there is a need to listen to your parents, but if it is about your wife who you want to live the rest of your life with, I guess you have to be able to make the balance.

I also feel that parents should be able to let their children go. I mean... someone asked me if I would allow my daughter to live with a guy before they are married. And my answer is yess.... most definitely. The reason? Because you will never know a person truly unless you have lived with him or her. And if you do not live with him or her and get married, then find out you cannot stand the way he snores, or the way he pees everywhere but the bowl, and want to divorce, it will be too late.

Lets face it, a man being divorced is not a problem, as long as he has money, he can get divorced and re-married. A woman will find it a bit harder... As you may well know... I may be conservative, but I also try to think way ahead... But of course if my girl says she wants to live in with her boyfriend and she is only 18... she will get such an asse whooping, her nice young butt will not forget it.


K... gotta goes for nowsssssss.... Ciaossssss..