Why Me???

Hi Boys and girls, Do you ever have the "Why me?" moment? It happens to me quite often... Especially when I have a few really irritatingly mentally weak relatives close by. What happened was that Energizer has been feeling sick... a pain in the stomach due to an inflamation. She refused to see a doctor till her "god daughter", some one who she only got to know recently wanted to bring her. In the end, she went to KKH and the doctor there, a gastro surgeon, said that she had to be warded and she had to be transferred to TTSH. The initial interpretation from the doctor was "Inflamtation, most probably NOT cancer". By the time it came to me... it became, "Most probably cancer"!!! Uhhhh there is a world of difference between the two statements. But then again, I do not know who lost the string... The only thing I am really pissed off was that my sister was flying off her rocker and mom was enjoying every moment of being such a celebrity!!! Any normal sane person (ooopppsss.... I forgot, she is not sane anymore) will inject the fact that the doctor did say that it was most probably not cancer... but energizer just remained quiet and was trying to act sick and dying. So since we thought it was cancer, we decided that she should have the best care... or at least my sister did... and we checked mom into John Hopkins.... Man that was one of the biggest mistakes in our lives. The patients there were not Sgporeans... all were sheiks and other name personalities... Then the doctor came from KKH and asked what the hell we were doing in John Hopkins... Mom did not have cancer and we had to check her out and transfer her to a normal gastro ward... so who is to blame for this mess??? I really do not know... Do I want to hazzard a guess??? Why bother. Now... the gahmen wants to initiate a law to make us look after our parents. I do not know how many heartless children there are out there, and there may be a few because of the way we bring up our children nowadays, but I am from the old school and I will look after my own parents. It really drives me up the wall when Energizer chooses other people to her own children. Take for example the time when we had a big flaming row over my sister's ex..... I was just mentioning that she should not trust him too much... She turned around and supported him instead... WTF!!?? Now she is also listening to her "godchild" who I do not know or even trust. So my dear gahmen, let me ask you this, how will you help us who look after our own parents? Alzheimer's dementia is going to be really common... where are the facilities? Old folks home?? Yea... some heartless shits may be chucking their parents in there because they have the money and no hearts, but what about those who are suffering now? Tax relief only for one child? I am paying with my sis for my mom.... So who will give me the relief? Make it into law and it will be a joke. These are men women and people who were there when we became a country. They were the ones who helped to bring the country up. And you throw them back to their children? I am disappointed. But in the midst of this disappointment, I ask myself "Why me?" and in fact I do not blame anyone or anything... If you have follwed my posts, you will know that I am a positively positive bloke. So I answer back... "luckily it is me man!!!" because if anyone else was given my unique position, he or she would have flipped and gone off into lala land. At least I am here to keep my family together. Oh yea attached is the latest vid of my darling.