I'm back!!!

After about 5 weeks plus away from work, I am back. But I have been busy too. At this time, after being away for so long, there are a lot of things that needs to be done at home. (Oh yea... the amazing energizer rabbit broke another remote control again!!!) It seems that she does not care about things that need to be cared for anymore. Imagine, if her frens were so careless as to break something, wouldn't she get angry and ask them to be more careful? She also left my dining hall chairs in "her mahjong" room, like as though the other parts of the house is not importan. If I had guests coming over, they's be surprised to see a dining table without any chairs... I may be cheap... but I do buy my dining set as a set... And to top it all off, she left another one of my mugs in the bloody sauce cabinet again. How the hell do you leave cups with sauces?

With all this, it really makes me very afraid to allow her to look after my baby.... She can be there, handle her and so on with close supervision from my wife or me... To be left alone with the child is considered dangerous. But what does she know or care? All she cares about is herself. I do not know if it is a fault of all old people or a fault with only her. Just like the other day, I had the shock of my life when I found out how much the T-shirts she bought from Greece or wherever she went to... It was 19 Euros... or close to SGD$20+... They were of low quality and also did not fit!!! And they were for baby.. Mine did not fit too for that matter.

And even before she went, she was complaining that I did not give her enough. It was close to 500 bucks and this is a lot of money to throw away. I know that people will curse me for being unfillial and being a bad son, but hey... why don't you try my Energizer rabbit and see if you can stand it? When dealing with a person who is suffering from Alzheimer's Dementia, the end point sometimes does seem like a heaven send. The big problem is when this will happen?

I am not cursing anyone and I do try not to do so... It is bad karma... But sometimes, life can be a bit difficult for us. But as life is hard, we do have to look at our options and also our own protection. So please hor... do not give judgements till you have had your own experience and are able to say what you will do.