I am a father!!!!

I just discovered yesterday that I have a son in Thailand..... Oooooohhhhh you and so many other people will say... "What have you done!!!!" It was only my beloved wife M who saw through my statement immediately and asked if Nop had a son liao... Oh ye of so little faith... Of course lah... I have been sprouting so long and so much about being a good man and father and you all can think of something wierd!!!!

So now my sis-in-law has a son, my best friend in Thailand has a son... I am really under pressure liao.... Fortunately for me, I am already starting my IVF cycle and wifey will undergo her treatment next month.... Hehehe so hopefully by latest Dec, I will post here and say that I am an expectant father.

But although everybody seems to be giving birth to males.... I have a certain feeling that my stereo sound system will be girls.... It will be cute... but they will still be girls.... No real matter lah... for me... as long as the children grow up to be valuable members of society, it is all the same to me. No real need to carry family names and so on.

Actually this brings me to some rather depressing thoughts. If I have a son, he will have to serve army or NS. And it seems like recently, a few guys have dropped dead literally. Imagine... You bring your son up till 20, perhaps some idiot parents may have given their sons high performance cars.... and then they go into NS and drop dead!!! Hehehehe... your son's evo how ah???

But then it goes into mind that how come people are dying from a little exercise? In my times, it was even harder in NS!!!! (bloody children lah... drive evo and live good life... have a bit of exercise and drop dead lor)Some more most of our children also do not spend as much time as us outside. We did not have PC, TV, or even Playstations so had to make do with our naughty little minds and come up with games.

However I must also stress that in NS, like in any other organisations, there will be a stress on achieving high honors for the battalion and unit and so on. So there will of course be emphasis on physical and job proficiency. And because the gahmen does pamper "scholars". So once these really high IQ but not necessarily high EQ people come in, they know that they are on the fast track, however, they still want to make a name for themselves so they push their guys even harder.

So that is the problem lor ladies and gentlemen... Spoil your kids.... face the future.... A spoilt brat will come back to haunt you in many ways.


Cheers,